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"Parents based in North London is looking for an extraordinary and skilled tutor to guide their youngest child on his initial journey to turning into an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this post, you might easily skip the term "beginning" as mere figurative language.

However, it may be the crucial part of this unusual employment listing, as it aims to recruit a teacher for a 12-month-old.

Many of responses have already been received since the unnamed family posted their call for the £180,000 per year tutor, who needs to be "someone very special".

Over the last few weeks, the post has attracted notice throughout the media, with many questioning why?

Progressive Approach

A tutoring expert, CEO and founder of an education consultancy, which is helping the family in their search, stated that despite early doubt, he found the idea "visionary", and "innovative".

When he consulted the family, he said they recognized the unconventional nature of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

But, they explained that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their older child was five, and by that point "cultural influence had by then become established".

But what did the family refer to by "cultural bias"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert answered. "The way you eat, the way you speak".

He said the older sibling had adopted "really subtle, unspoken signals" from the family, and had assumed their cultural habits. The family explained to him they hoped to prevent history to recur with their infant.

The plan: To engage a English tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to influence the baby from the very start.

Subtle Influence

"A lot of the development at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," explained the CEO.

It's via this osmosis that the family are hoping the child will adopt the English characteristics they want to instil.

Adam noted the tutor must be someone who attended "the right kinds of schools – comparable categories of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be carrying out things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told Adam the selected educator should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in equestrian activities, winter sports, creative fields and instrumental training so as to inspire the child in a wide range of interests.

More than that though, he explained the family desired the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and picking up an instrument by the time they are about three years old".

In the family's minds, helping their son grow into a "UK sophisticate" will bring about achievement and provide access.

"For all the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he notes.

But, despite all this instruction in "UK identity", could the child absorb so-called cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he lives with anyway?

"Yes", answered the CEO. "They know this may not work, but they've just taken the view of, 'let's give it a go and we should start as quickly as we can', because the expense of it is irrelevant," he said.

Impractical

A number of in the private teaching field who share similar doubts.

Peter Cui, CEO and founder of a tutoring service, who provides private tutors, wrote that "the development of embracing two identities, or in fact, discovering oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

Peter noted that he had moved from Asia to the United Kingdom at the age of 7 years old, and had been raised knowing and living two backgrounds. He progressed to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

"The idea that one individual can serve as a representation of Britishness, a person who can somehow transplant the qualities of a British gentleman to a 12-month-old child, appears naive and unfeasible," he stated.

"In my experience, having a distinctly British tutor from early childhood will does not instantly achieve the outcome they desire.

"I did not have that kind of mentor, and yet I have been lucky enough to enjoy numerous of the opportunities they aspire for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, self-identity should not be forced from the outside; it must be selected, and it must originate internally."

Buying Britishness

Certainly, UK identity is something the CEO hopes can be taught – and sold.

"I think the situation that the international society regards us in this regard is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating